Take care of home

So of course it's no secret that I'm not a fan of cheaters [2 entries down from this post] and although I'm not giving them a valid excuse AT ALL [because I think cheating is a cowards way out of simple communication] I do however know that when we ladies don't take care of home, our men might get taken care of elsewhere. Taking care of home is not all about sex either, it is a major factor but its not the only factor[the sex advice is for married couples only, I repeat, married couples only. I am not in any way giving sex advice to unmarried women :--( sorry]
Now back to the point, it is so important to make sure that you have a happy man. Meeting all his needs and then some. If he likes chocolate buy him a case load of it, if he loves football get him season tickets to his favorite team. If you know your man loves seafood, then cook seafood for him until he passes out lol. What I'm trying to say here is, don't have your man wanting more from you cause you know just as soon as he starts feeling neglected, Betty Boop comes along at the perfect timing and she just so happens to love chocolate too, she even loves watching football and knows all the technical stuff about it, and Betty Boop can cook her some kickin seafood. See, before you know it, hes gone off with Betty Boop. Yeah you can say that he wasn't the man for you anyway, if you want to look at it like that, but I like to see things from all angles. I'm a old fashion kind of girl but I try [sometimes I fail] not to lean towards my viewpoints when I give advice because I know that it takes all kinds to make the world go round. Some women never want to get married, all they want to do is work, some women want to be housewives, some feel they should be the ones getting pampered not the man--but I feel this advice can be considered universal to all kinds of women. Actually I think I'm considered a new school old school girl. I believe in catering 100% to my man, cooking his meals, fixing his plate, washing his clothes, treating him nothing different then how a king would be treated, but I also believe in myself being treated nothing different then how a queen should be treated. Being surprised with a spa day and candle light dinner, little gifts here and there of some of my favorite items, a foot massage. [I know some one is reading this cracking up laughing saying this is so fairytale; and to you I want to say, you get what you expect, if your expectations are low then you will get a low standard man but if your expectations are high then you can get a man that fits in your high standards. Its about your approach, and ultimately its about you. What do you have going for yourself, what do you bring to the table] Okay now to the sex. Married people why do you hold sex from your spouses? Unintentionally and attentional, doesn't matter its wrong. Give that man all the sex he wants when he wants it and how he wants it and if you don't like it, don't fake it, learn to like it. Its so amazing how fun and exciting a relationship can be when you have two people who are not stubborn and selfish towards each other, who love to please one another, you'll find out that love can be so fun and can bring such happiness. To you celibates, let this post not discourage you. The way we cater to our man is the same, you just have to make sure you have the right man. Do not be with a man who is not celibate himself so even though you're giving him your all, you're still only pleasing him at a 80% level. Find the man that's right for you and your lifestyle so you can please him 100%.

Love, Metis