No such thing as Celibacy in 2009.......

I would honestly believe this if it wasn't for the few people that I have around me who have vowed to be celibate until they are married. This is not a little vow to themselves or just for the moment, this is a vow made with God, which is far more deeper and way easier to uphold. SEX, such a small yet powerful word. This three letter word can ruin your relationship, your happiness, and even cause your relationship with God to be kind of shaky. Just think about that one time that you wished you never had sex with some one. You find out a few months after you meet him that he wasn't the man you thought he was, all these things start happening, and go figure you just slept with him for the first time, or you just started sleeping with him a few weeks ago. Imagine how relieved you would be to say oooh at least I didn't sleep with him. Why complicate things even more than what they are? Some women attach sex with feelings. Let me rephrase that, most women attach sex with feelings. Any way you put it SEX causes more headache and drama than pleasure. A relationship can be so much deeper, so much more if you eliminate sex from the equation. With all the drama that comes along with it, I was happy to kick the three letter word to the curb. No doubt there are going to be a lot of men, fine men at that, that wont be able to honor the celibacy until marriage rule, but just think, that man wasn't meant for you anyway. Or think about it like this, your husband is some where among the millions of men in the USA, but if you are celibate, your husband is now some where among less than 1 million men in the USA. I like the odds of the celibate person better :--)

Love, Metis