Marriage

It has been constantly brought to my attention that the true value of marriage is slowly deteriorating. For example I am aware of a certain situation where a particular man has been living an extreme wild life but apparently he does have a main women who doesn't live in the same state as him. Now some of the women that he has had encounters with are arguing over him and some of the friends of the "encountered" are apart of the argument as well. (Arguing via internet) The argument is mainly about how the women is lucky, he bought her a huge ring, he takes her to private islands and etc. etc. It makes me so frustrated to see how any one in their right mind could believe they are lucky when they have a man who is openly and publicly dating other women. You couldn't buy me a big enough ring for me to be okay with that. What woman says yes to a man like that. Is she saying yes to the man or the ring????? I would be totally embarrassed to have my man's business out all over the internet about his rendezvous with various women. So why does this woman say yes to a man like that and why does some women think she is LUCKY because of the size of a ring. Its like women become oblivious to what marriage is and what they truly deserve. If he is acting this way now what makes you think hes gonna change when you finally say I DO.
In a way I feel sorry for this girl because she is soo lost. You can love some one but if things get out of hand you must definitely know when to let it go. God never attended for us to go through such pain for Love. This girl is clueless to the fact that she is being disrespected. Why allow such pain in your life just so you can say I have him. Maybe if he changed his ways (and I mean really changed his ways not trying to change) then you can continue on with the relationship but ladies we have o know when to let go. You might marry this man that you swear you love so much and miss out on the man that God truly intended to be for you.
So after I came across that situation, two more came about and I was like WOW just how many women totally ignore the big red neon warning signs? These are all women who have not yet gotten married and yet and still they choose to make things more complicated just to have their hopes fulfilled of that fairytale. These women are enabling the men to be the way they are because they know that they can come home to them regardless. I hope that somewhere along the road these women realize its not worth it. Pray about it, Let it go, and best believe God will guide you to true joy.

Love, METIS